Sunday, August 7, 2016

Cut Mammy Loose, Part 4 — “Don’t Be Bonnie”

Introduction To All Posts:

Black women’s problems with Black men started in Africa LONG before the arrival of the Arab man and the White man. 

Black men have been betraying Black women since BEFORE the White man ever came to Africa. If you haven’t already done so, please read the following 2 posts:


And now on to today’s post (following image is by Simone56 From YouTube):




If you’re wise, you’ll take heed of THIS outstanding Facebook post by Simone56 From YouTube (who has a lot of excellent videos on her YouTube channel). She says, in part:
There is no Pro-Black Bonnie and Clyde in the Black collective. Militant extremist "Pro-Black" men only "like" Women Race Soldiers when you're sharing their memes, posts, and co-signing their rhetoric, misinformation, and propaganda. But they don't support "Female Rambos" who ACT ON THEIR RHETORIC. They will call you "ghetto" "ratchet" a "trap queen" "aggressive" "manly" "unfeminine" and accuse you of emasculating them. You didn't think that they were forreal did you? Radicalized hoteps (and "Hebrew Israelites") are some of the biggest cowards and punks that I've ever seen. Why do you think that Blackistan neighborhoods look like war zones? Because these pompous arrogant crap-talking "Pro-Black" men in large part have abandoned their responsibility and masculine role to protect, provide, and produce for their own communities. Instead they depend on the White Man, foreign men (such as Arabs, the Chinese, Korean, etc), and Black women to "hold up the Black community" and run and hide behind our skirts when danger comes like a bunch of effeminate sniveling ankh-wearing RBG flag-toting wimps.

If militant extremist "Pro-Black" men won't even go toe-to-toe with these Black male gangs in the hood, pimps, drug dealers, and other assorted street pirates -- then it begs the question as to why Black women are hanging on their every word and allowing them to hype up our emotions, exploit our anger, fill up our heads with fantasies, and convince us to buck against heavily armed police and take on an entire system that has been in place for centuries. 
I agree.

For your own physical safety as a Black woman, you must either: 

(1) Stay away from ANY and ALL non-Christian houses of worship (mosque, temple, ashram, etc.) that have a majority of Black parishioners. 

OR (if you’ve just got to worship around a majority of Black folks then)  

(2) attend a slave* Black church (the odds of finding a healthy and productive Black church are not good). 

As an orthodox Muslimah who sees the many and unchanging deficits of the slave Black church, it pains me to have to say this. But I believe in speaking the truth. There are reasons why I won’t attend majority-Black mosques or immigrant mosques (that are too long to get into here). 

[*I call it the “slave church” because most (not all) African-American churches keep their Black women parishioners in mental slavery while failing to address or meet any of their major needs. Such as the ongoing failure to provide a pool of wholesome, marriage-minded male believers with which these women can build strong Christian families. 

Wholesome family based on wholesome marriage is the most basic building block for any stable group or nation of people. Other Christians in America can—with a straight face—talk about building a Christian family legacy. Meanwhile, the bulk of African-American churches are filled with single mothers. See The Black Church Where Women Pray and Men Prey by Deborrah Cooper.] 

Many slave Black churches financially and sexually exploit Black women. But at least the slave church generally won’t get Black women killedunlike the Black versions of non-Christian religions. 

The way buying into Moorish Science Temple “sovereign” crazy talk got Korryn Gaines killed. That Moorish mess got Ms. Gaines killed and then mocked by negro males after her death in service to that ideology. 

If you’re a Black woman who wants to live, you’ll STAY FAR AWAY from the following Black religious groups (and their offshoots): 

Moorish Science Temple 


Nation of Islam 


NOI-affiliated gunmen have murdered defectors in the past, such as Malcolm X. But what most people don’t know is that they also murdered a household of orthodox Muslim Black folks (including women and children) in 1973. This case was referred to as the “Hanafi murders.” 
“Two adults and a child were shot to death, while four other children were drowned. The ages of the children ranged from 9 days to 10 years.” 

They were murdered because they were relatives of a man (Hamaas Abdul Khaalis) who had denounced Elijah Muhammad as a false prophet. Among other grievances, these murders resulted in Mr. Khaalis leading a group of gunmen in laying siege to several buildings and taking 150 people hostage while doing so. Said incident is referred to as the 1977 Hanafi Siege

Black Hebrew Israelites 




Bottom Line  “Don’t Be Bonnie”

Saturday, August 6, 2016

Cut Mammy Loose, Part 3 - About Korryn Gaines—“I Don’t Know Her.”

Introduction To All Posts:

Black women’s problems with Black men started in Africa LONG before the arrival of the Arab man and the White man. 

Black men have been betraying Black women since BEFORE the White man ever came to Africa. If you haven’t already done so, please read the following 2 posts:


And now on to today’s post:


I had considered writing an essay-long post about the latest bit of Sista Soldier/Mammy Mule insanity (the negro-hotep-inspired downfall and death of Korryn Gaines): 




And then I saw a couple of comments by a commenter named Fatou to THIS Facebook post by Breukelen Bleu. Fatou’s comments perfectly and succinctly summed up everything I have to say about the needless demise of Korryn Gaines (who was unfortunately the type of delusional Sista Soldier who would’ve hated self-actualizing Black women like me):

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Fatou Diarra Korryn echoed the same anti establishment bullshit of niggaz..and many still resented her for having the ballz to actually do what they preach on street corners..but too chicken to do..albeit crazy.This young child understood the negro moor concept of being "sovereign"..but didnt know shit about spiritual laws. She was taken out because she kept "calling for it"(an invocation)..and she was clearly preocuppied with the immorality of the system..but couldnt see her spiritual immorality in supporting n phucking..hence, rewarding a criminal who was selling poison to his people. What little ounce of sorrow that I feel..is rooted in my instinctive nature to see her as ultimately a kid..as I am old enough to be her mother..otherwise, my wordings here would be far harsher..but let me say this..SHE WAS NO LOSS TO BLACK WOMANHOOD..JUST AN UNFORTUNATE LESSON OF WHAT NOT TO BE AND WHAT NOT TO DO.
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Fatou Diarra Her own father produced this shyt. The black woman..being carriers of the womb..multiplies everything fed to us that we internalize. She was a full manifestation of a warrior..doctrine fed to her from childhood. It amazes me how said doctrine can turn black women into warriors but in order for black men to exhibit any true warrior spirit..it must be via craziness and being delusional OR there must be a reward of white/non black pussy behind it..otherwise they are lethargic af
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Fatou Diarra We can do a whole case study on this Korryn Baines Story. All of the isms of Blackistan are right here front n center. Her father ..a typical nigga spewing nigga philosophy n dogma but aint done shyt but bait his daughter to execute his desires which he was too chicken shyt to actually do...the biracial or very light skinned daughters negro males stay obsessed having-secretly wishing they were their women...he likely fantasized about his own daughter teaching her against the system as if she were his wife...the outspoken aunts who have come to the news..not one nigga in sight available as if no men are in her family...obviously no protection or supervision from either parent or she wouldnt have been comfortable and brazen in her personal life choices and her actions..handling the white male police ALONE without male support-appearing like a lone wolf..and the ultimate-abandoned to die alone after being encouraged to be a soldier woman. She is everything BWE discuss and analyze
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Yep, that perfectly sums up how I feel about this unfortunate young woman and situation. That, along with the following hashtag that should be used forevermore whenever a negro male is shot down by the police:

#DontMarchForHim

Sunday, July 17, 2016

Cut Mammy Loose, Part 2 — “I Don’t Know Her.”

Introduction To All Posts:

Black women’s problems with Black men started in Africa LONG before the arrival of the Arab man and the White man. 

Black men have been betraying Black women since BEFORE the White man ever came to Africa. If you haven’t already done so, please read the following 2 posts:


And now on to today’s post:

In the aftermath of all the Mammy-related madness discussed in Part 1 of this series, it’s time for those of us who are sane, sensible, and self-actualizing African-American Black women to turn our complete attention back to optimizing our own lifestyles. And to do so with a light and unburdened spirit. Like so (lol):

It’s okay to turn away from the mammy mules and Sista Soldiers with a smile.

It’s okay—in fact, it’s preferable—to have the following public response to Sista Soldiers, mammies, disrespectful fools and their insanely self-destructive behaviors:

Thursday, July 7, 2016

Cut Mammy Loose — I'm Boycotting Every Black Woman Who Actively Supports The Memory Of Convicted Pedophile Alton Sterling

Edited at 11:17 p.m. (Central Time) on 7-7-16 To Add:
I’ve just seen breaking news online headlines about snipers taking advantage of the opportunity presented by the protests in Dallas to shoot approximately 11 police officers, killing 4 of them.

At this point, there’s no way to know *what* the shooter(s)’ motives were. 

They could be violent White male extremists looking to do a “false flag” operation to put more “heat” onto silly Black women Black Lives Matter activists. 

They could be anti-police Black males looking to take revenge. 

They could be deranged Muslim extremists looking to increase the chaos and hatred in the U.S. 

In short, the shooter(s) could be ANYBODY looking to use YOU as a human shield for THEIR agenda. Y’all Black women protesters are as dumb as rocks:






I’m going to sit back and watch to see if the White American power structure MAKES all the silly, gullible Black women celebrities who stuck their necks out in support of this dead pedophile backtrack on their statements. I wont be surprised if these mammies find themselves feeling forced to apologize for the slaying of these police officers. Killings of police officers of which I’m almost 100% certain Black women had NO involvement. Time will tell, as it always does. 

Amended at 12:49 a.m. on 7-8-16 to add: I just saw a comment indicating that there’s a female suspect also being sought by the authorities. I hope that’s not accurate. If that individual turns out to be a (idiotic Sista Soldier) Black woman, then watch out! Collectively, we have NO protectors or allies. Black women are NOT prepared for the backlash that’s going to come from these killings. 

All I can say at this point is that y’all were warned not to participate in this Black Lives Matter mess by various BWE and BW-centric writers. Y’all were warned not to make yourselves the public face of this mess. When I first wrote this post earlier in the evening, I was focused on the ethical aspects of this. Because I wanted to make sure I never gave pedophile-supporting mammies any support whatsoever.

But now that somebody has used dumb mammies Black Lives Matter protests as a staging ground for an act of terrorism, this has escalated from a matter of ethics to a life-and-death decision. 

IF you want to survive (not to mention thrive), you MUST cut ALL of these mammies loose! Immediately.

Amended at 8:41 a.m. on 7-8-16 to add: Thanks for all the information, ladies! Now that this situation has morphed into a domestic terrorism case (as discussed in the amended portion of this post), I'm going to close the comments to this post later today.

Introduction To All Posts:

Black women’s problems with Black men started in Africa LONG before the arrival of the Arab man and the White man. 

Black men have been betraying Black women since BEFORE the White man ever came to Africa. If you haven’t already done so, please read the following 2 posts:



And now on to today’s post:

I’m making an exception and opening the comments to this post (for now) because I want to compile a list of all the Black mammies who are actively supporting the memory of the dead convicted pedophile Alton Sterling. See information regarding the dead pedophiles criminal record HERE.


I want a list so I can make sure to boycott every single one of these penis-pandering mammies. Because these mammies, for all practical purposes, ignore the near-daily occurrence of Black male-committed atrocities committed against their fellow Black women. They apparently don’t care about murdered Black women’s children; but they’re roused to action in support of a convicted pedophile.

I’m talking about atrocities like the recent public murder of a young Black mother named Jessica Hampton. Jessica Hampton who was stabbed to death by a negro male on a CTA Red Line train. While negro male passengers did nothing except videotape her agonizing death and post the footage on social media. See news story HEREAnd then there was the spectacle of negro males and penis-pandering mammies spreading rumors on social media in an attempt to “justify” her murder.

Thanks to Mrs. Dee Dee Russell-Lefrak of Black Women With Other Brothers for this excellent meme!

In her most recent video titled THE X FACTOR: ONESIDED LOYALTY IS FOR SUCKAS, Breukelen Bleu has articulated exactly how I feel about this mess.

I’m opening the comments to this post because I’ll need your help to compile this list of penis-pandering mammies who need to be cut ALL the way loose by sane, sensible, self-loving Black women. They need to be cut ALL the way loose from sane Black women’s financial and other material support.

It’s good that there’s a critical mass of Black women who have the common sense to require reciprocity in their interactions and support. Those of us with common sense and self-love have already divested from Black males who don’t support us.

The next step is to draw a line in the sand between ourselves and the penis-pandering mammies who support predatory Black males at the expense of other Black women and girls.

And so, I’m drawing a line in the sand against these mammies. It’s time to cut Mammy loose! 

Starting with Issa Rae. I will never support any project that she’s involved in. 

By “active support” I mean any Black woman who is organizing, protesting, lobbying, raising money or doing anything else in support of the memory of the dead convicted pedophile Alton Sterling.

If you comment and give information and “receipts” (links) regarding other Black women who are actively supporting the memory of the dead convicted pedophile (and woman beater) Alton Sterling, I’ll edit this post to add their names to my personal boycott list below:

1. Issa Rae

2. Miss USA 2016 Deshauna Barber

3. Beyoncé [I never cared for her anyway]

4. Sanaa Lathan

5. Stacey Patton

6. Solange Knowles

7. Taraji P. Henson

8. Janelle Monae

9. Rashida Jones [A biracial chick that I never supported]

10. Viola Davis

11. Anika Noni Rose

12. Awesomely Luvvie

Wednesday, June 29, 2016

I Care; And I've Prayed In Support Of You

Introduction To All Posts:

Black women’s problems with Black men started in Africa LONG before the arrival of the Arab man and the White man. 

Black men have been betraying Black women since BEFORE the White man ever came to Africa. If you haven’t already done so, please read the following 2 posts:



And now on to today’s post:

I've seen her make references to being a rape survivor before. And I've been praying for her restoration and peace of mind ever since I saw those references. I've kept my prayers for her to myself up to this point. But after seeing this post and discussion today, I felt compelled to say something publicly.
Idk what possessed black women to do this... But no one cares about your problems or issues. No one. Get over it.
Show up with money or something of VALUE and people will care. Not one woman cares that I had been raped and am right now, working through rape trauma. All they care about is whether or not I kiss their ass about their foolishness and neediness. When I snap on em because they did something triggering? I am out of pocket, rude or threatening them. Or I am unprofessional.
None of you cares about me or my problems. Why should I care about yours? Why should anyone care? No one cares. Even your therapist gets PAID to care. The "free" people aren't folks who care. They are often vampires. Invest in yourself!

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Deva Fiyah Ty sisters. Truly, it often feels like no one cares. Because... Well they don't. Lol not in ways that matter to me or help me. I care in ways that matter to y'all and help you. That is my point. Self investment. I don't expect y'all to freely care about me. 

Some sisters care because they need me healed so they can get their healing too. And that's fine.

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Deva Fiyah, I care. I care and I don't know you. I'm not looking for anything from you. I don't have to know you and I don't have to want something from you to care about the trauma that you've survived. I care and I'm praying for your restoration because it's the right thing to do. The decent human thing to do. 

I don't understand these . . . demons in human form that feel nothing when presented with that kind of personal disclosure. All I know is that, unfortunately, the Black collective is teeming with such creatures. Not just the legions of Black males who are actively and violently evil. But ALSO the sick and evil Black women who take a perverted pleasure in other Black women's difficulties. I'll disclose a couple of personal tales that showed me just how sick and twisted more than a few women are when it comes to how they treat other women.

Tale #1 - The BW Who Were DELIGHTED To Hear Of My Broken Engagement During Law School. When I was in law school, there came a time when I gave back my engagement ring and broke up with my then-fiance. I discovered to my horror that there were plenty of colored women and girl acquaintances who were tickled pink to learn that I had broken off my engagement. But the very worst offender was a fully grown, middle-aged heifer working as a court reporter in the courtroom where I was law clerking. She could barely keep a smile off her face as she hurried to ask me why I wasn't wearing my engagement ring that day.

When I was that age (24-25) I wasn't really a jewelry person, so I hadn't been wearing the ring or any of my other jewelry every day anyway (before the break-up). And I had never discussed any of my personal business with any of the people at work. So they didn't have any definitive information about what was going on one way or the other. Out of disgust, I “played the nut role” and answered her question with another question. 

I wore a blank, confused expression on my face while I asked her, “Oh, why do you ask?” She didn't know what to make of that reaction (she couldn't get a rise out of me one way or the other), so she tried to play it all off. “Well, I was just wondering . . . (as her voice trailed off). “What were you wondering?” I said with a smile. “Oh, nothing . . .”

Like everybody else, I had seen girls engage in vicious behavior in high school. But this incident was my first heavy-duty lesson that even fully grown and old women persist in that high-school type of hateful behavior.

Tale #2 - The Client Who Left A Voice Mail Saying She “Needed” Me To Call Her While I Was On Bereavement Leave Burying My Mother. This incident happened years ago when I was still working at the firm. One of my partners appeared on my behalf for this client on a minor court date while I was off on bereavement leave. So I know for a fact that this broad HEARD the judge say that I was not there that day because my mother had passed. Which, as the judge explained to her, was why she was continuing the case to a day when I would be back at work.

While I was in the midst of making arrangements for my mother's funeral service, I got the sudden urge to call my work voice mail (which I generally would never do when I was off from work). This is what I heard: “I know that at a time like this, my case is the last thing you want to talk about. But I really need you to call me today.. . . [blah, blah, blah, whining about her self-created problems]”

At first I was stunned for a few moments (at how profoundly self-absorbed a creature has to be to leave a message like that). And then I started laughing a deep belly laugh that helped release much of the tension that I had been holding in while talking to the various service providers (funeral home; the minister at Mom's church; musician at that church; printer; etc.). My family looked at me like I was crazy.

And then I understood why God had given me the nudge to check my voice mail that day. Every time I thought about the madness of that utterly ridiculous voice mail message, it brought a smile to my face. Mentally debating the pros and cons of cursing out that client when I got back to work at the firm also helped relieve a bit of the stress during the very difficult days immediately after my mother passed.* 

[*I'm not a cheek-turner. Having the religiously valid option to retaliate if I choose to do so has always been important to me. Letting people skate with evil and injustice only encourages them to persist in their acts of evil and injustice. It's a large part of why I privately quit “Club Christianity” as a teenager.]

So, in light of the above, I wasn't surprised to read about the disgusting behavior referenced by several posts by Mrs. Dee Dee Lefrak, host of Black Women With Other Brothers, including this one:
MUST READ and another shout out for Black Women With Other Brothers by the one and only ‪#‎MuslimBushido‬ aka Sojourner's Passport, which I highly recommend you purchase (scroll down and find the thread with a photo of me reading her book which you ought to purchase on Amazon here's the direct link: https://www.amazon.com/Sojourners-Passport…/…/ref=sr_1_sc_1… ).
I have a soft sport for her, besides the fact she's a one of the original BWE's she paid respect to the loss of my husband Mr.Lefrak last summer, I'll *always* remember that, as other lame & jealous heffas were mocking my loss (death happens to us all, so when your overly-burdened single Mother passes or your coddled spoiled sons may die, you'll see how it feels to grieve!).
Now that's some sick and evil mess that Dee Dee's describing. Knowing how many haters there are among colored women, I had a hunch that such things might be happening; which is why I've kept Dee Dee in my prayers after I learned of her loss. It's the right thing to do.

Dee Dee, I care. I care and I don't know you. I'm not looking for anything from you. I don't have to know you and I don't have to want something from you to care about the loss that you've experienced. I care and I'm praying for your comfort and peace of mind because it's the right thing to do. The decent human thing to do. 

Like I said, I'm not a cheek-turner. I'm infuriated by the kind of behaviors that Deva Fiyah and Dee Dee are describing. The kind of fury that almost (LOL!) makes me want to dip into witchcraft just long enough to try to put a hex on those hateful, vicious hags they've described. As things are, I simply pray for those kind of hags to get what they give to other women. Whatever that might be. Which I believe is a just and balanced request.

It took me about 2.5 years to reach a point of calm inner equilibrium about my mother's passing. I will always deeply miss her; and feel saddened about her transition from presence in my life to memory. But it's manageable. I'm thankful to have gotten past the point of my nerves always feeling rubbed totally raw about her absence. I thank God that I didn't have a coven of demons in human form openly poking at me and pressing on me while grieving her death.

As I and others have discussed, major shifts are underway. There will be lots of casualties among African-Americans (due to our mass dysfunction, lack of stable family support networks, etc.). There'll be grieving African-American survivors. Who will mostly be left to their own devices because they don't understand basic human decency. Because they're takers who never give reciprocal support. In short, because they're scum—like the vicious hags who responded inappropriately to Devah Fiyah's and Dee Dee's challenging circumstances. 

If you're different and better than those vicious hags . . . . If you're a fully human-type of person . . . then you'll take the time to show some solidarity and give Deva Fiyah and Dee Dee some support. A prayer. A kind word. Perhaps even get up off some money and compensate them for their educational products and work that you're looking to benefit from (instead of trying to feed off of their work for free).