Friday, October 14, 2016

“I’m Not Paying Becky’s Light Bill”—Victory of The BWE Movement

Addendum as of 10-15-16 [1 day after the original post]

The “I’m not paying Becky’s light bill” word is spreading like wildfire among Black women—Ladies, keep up the excellent work! To recap what I said in the original post:
Investing money into negro males who give that money to nonblack girlfriends and wives does not lead to Black economic growth. Instead, it leads to generations of BW’s money being diverted AWAY from Black people and transferred TO nonblack women and these women’s nonblack communities. As I gave examples of in THIS POST

Investing money into negro males who give that money to nonblack girlfriends and wives leads to generational poverty for African-American Black women and their Black children. 

All of which should have been obvious to African-American Black women after 50+ years experience of giving money to BM celebrities (and other affluent BM) who then gave our money to nonblack women. [After the civil rights movement made it safe for these negro males to chase and marry White women.]
The “okey dokes” that negro males use to pimp BW of their money to pay Becky’s bills and support Becky’s comfy lifestyle fall into 2 basic categories: 

BM’s and Mammy Mules’ Okey Doke #1: How dare you BW refuse to give money to a negro male based on who he lifts up with your money! That’s racist and wrong of you! Negro males argue that BM are free to do whatever they want with the money they get from BW’s support—including spending it to uplift White women. 

Interestingly, this is true. But what the same negro males never acknowledge is that BW are ALSO free to do WHATEVER they want with their money. Including BW being free to NOT give money to a BM—for whatever reason (or no reason at all). That “free to do as I please” door swings both ways. 

But negro males are so spoiled and used to enjoying one-sided support from BW that they shriek in enraged panic whenever BW wake up and start requiring reciprocity. You can see that in this comment from the comment section to Simone56 From YouTube’s excellent video about this issue

Sherrod12791 hour ago
I know exactly what racism is! And for someone to suggest that they won't support another person(black or otherwise) because of who they choose to be involved with sounds pretty racist to me. 🚨Reality check🚨 Kanye's, Terrance Howard's or any other black mans wealth does not belong to the black community. It belongs to them! They can choose to do with it what they want. Get over yourselves nobody owes you a damn thing!!!
Wait a minute—what happened to the Supporting Nate Parker = Supporting The Black Community lie? In his anger at the very idea of BW refusing to pay Becky’s bills by way of Nate Parker, Kanye West and the rest of them, this Internet Ike Turner apparently forgot all about that excuse. {laughing}

According to this abusive Internet Ike Turner (just look at who he subscribes to on YouTube), BM are free to do whatever they want with their money. And BM don’t owe BW anything. But somehow this “free to do as they please with their money” principle does NOT apply to BW and their money. He’s acting as if BW have some [imaginary] obligation to spend their money on BM’s projects. Ummm….that would be a “NO.” 

BM’s and Mammy Mules’ Okey Doke #2: What about the BW married to WM (and other nonblack men)?! Answer: What about them? The difference is that these BW are not seeking to use BM’s money to pay their White or nonblack husband’s bills. That’s not how marriage works on a patriarchal planet. Furthermore, the interracially married BW that negro males are angry about have married nonblack men with money—typically nonblack men with more money than these celebrity BW. Oh, like Eve and Janet Jackson. 

BM’s and Mammy Mules’ Okey Doke #2 draws a false equivalence in terms of how wealth is passed on in a patriarchal society. On a patriarchal planet, wealth flows from men to the women and children in their lives. Not the other way around. Internet Ike Turners and their Mammy Mule handmaidens tried to pull Okey Doke #2 on SlaveNoLonger in the comments to her YouTube video about how she met her Mexican-American husband

As SlaveNoLonger told them, the difference is that she’s not selling anything to Black people. I would also add a second point—she’s also not trying to get BM’s money to use to pay her Mexican husband’s bills. 

The arguments that BM (and their BW Mammy Mule handmaidens) come up with are contrived and downright silly. Black males know that Black women and Black women’s money are the only resources that BM control. And BM are deathly afraid of losing control of BW’s money. BM will say anything to keep their hands in BW’s purses. 

But it’s too late. Those purses are snapping shut. As they should. I believe that as more BW redirect their money to only support the people and entities that support BW, we’ll be able to make a dent in the generational poverty that we currently see among BW and Black children. As increasing numbers of BW stop financing their own oppression by BM, a better day is coming. Praise God!

Introduction To All Posts:

Black women’s problems with Black men started in Africa LONG before the arrival of the Arab man and the White man. 

Black men have been betraying Black women since BEFORE the White man ever came to Africa. If you haven’t already done so, please read the following 2 posts:


And now on to today’s post.

Over the past few days, I’ve been laughing while watching the latest manifestation of the BWE movement’s victory. It’s been so good to see so many African-American Black women wake up and realize that they gain nothing but generational poverty and lack when they give their hard-earned money to negro male celebrities who give those same coins to White women (and other nonblack women). 

Reality is totally contrary to the lies that hoteps and other types of Talk Black Power But Marry White Women negro males tell Black women: 

Investing money into negro males who give that money to nonblack girlfriends and wives does not lead to Black economic growth. Instead, it leads to generations of BW’s money being diverted AWAY from Black people and transferred TO nonblack women and these women’s nonblack communities. As I gave examples of in THIS POST

Investing money into negro males who give that money to nonblack girlfriends and wives leads to generational poverty for African-American Black women and their Black children. 

All of which should have been obvious to African-American Black women after 50+ years experience of giving money to BM celebrities (and other affluent BM) who then gave our money to nonblack women. [After the civil rights movement made it safe for these negro males to chase and marry White women.]

The brainwashing of BW runs deep. In its various forms, from Africa to the diaspora, that brainwashing has been going on for over a thousand years. It took time for BWE and other BW-centric activists to break the spell that had 99.99% of African-American BW spending their entire lives engaged in one-sided, unreciprocated loyalty to Black males.

Anyhoo, I’m especially tickled by the variations of the following phrase that I’ve seen in BW’s commentary across the internet: “I’m not paying Becky’s light bill.” 

This is a great way to put it because it sums up what you are actually doing when you support most negro male celebrities and their projects: You’re paying Becky’s bills and keeping Becky living large—off of your money! 

Here are some posts and related comment section discussions that I’ve greatly enjoyed over the past few days: 

From Mrs. Dee Dee LeFrak of Black Women With Other Brothers, who has stated:


Read the comments section to see the reverberations of *BWE, from the womanist tone of the article written by a BM to the general stance of BW fonts calling out Blackistan hypocrisy.
All this 'wokeness' in USABW you're seeing is the trickle down theory and the direct result of classic BWE studied absorbed regurgitated and for the most part uncredited by younger women. Some BW "writers" brashly denounce BWE yet obviously parrot it.
Go read the comments section.
*Black Women's Empowerment

I chose to satirize some swirling Black male celebrities as #bedbucks because they deliberately do a bait and switch to con gullible BW for support/coins with a false Pro Black Love agenda when in real life they take the BW's coins back home to their swirl. Luke Cage, Nate Parker, Donald Glover on and on, BW getting played by false narratives as his non-black women lives comfortably.
While I proudly swirl and boldly state my preference my decades long, mixed media artistic platforms have never been to promote a false Pro Black Love agenda. Yes, my favorite artist is Stevie Wonder, that will never change but I'm not fronting as though I date BM through my art, on the contrary, I've been satirizing BM long before FB swirl pages!
From Black Woman Excellence who stated:


I don't support buckwenches. Won't be paying Becky's light bill. And of course they always have some justification. Black women are the only ones supporting these buckwenches. Who's surprised?
"In the clip, host Charlemagne asks Colter about the reaction he receives when Black female fans discover his wife is white. The actor responds by professing his love for “sistas.” But Colter does not apologize for loving his wife. He says that he married his wife because they have been together since he was a struggling grad student.
“I’m a human being,” he starts. “I look at people [for their] character and what is inside… I met my wife when I was struggling and in grad school. She stuck with me for 16 years … She held me up many times.”
I also applaud the way Black Woman Excellence set a firm boundary in THIS POST with a “tragic biracial” who made the mistake of trying to tone police BW’s conversations on the Black Woman Excellence page.

From SlaveNoLonger who points out the ridiculous hypocrisy of negro male hoteps who demand that BW boycott White people—boycott White people EXCEPT the White women that BM marry and hook up with:


I’m delighted to see so many African-American Black women waking up. Waking up and realizing that our money, time and resources belong to us. And we have the right to decide for ourselves what we’re going to do with our resources. 

After over a thousand years of BW giving BM unreciprocated support, we don’t owe negro males anything. We certainly don’t have any obligation to “pay Becky’s light bill” via the negro male she’s hooked up with. 

#ImNotPayingBeckysLightBill