Saturday, October 31, 2015

The Scales Fell From African-American Women's Eyes & They Received Their Sight

It’s been fascinating to see the fallout from the latest publicized outrage committed against an African-American girl or woman. In the aftermath of the Spring Valley high school police assault on a Black girl student, large numbers of African-American (AA) Black women are finally letting themselves see what has always been right before our eyes the entire time: 

Black men have been betraying and backstabbing Black women since before the WM (and the Arabs) ever came to Africa! 

That All Black Problems Stem From Slavery/Colonialism narrative is very tired and frayed around the edges. At this point, I’m convinced that the Black world’s problems started WAY before the Arab and European invasions. BM have been betraying and exploiting BW from the very beginning. BM have been throwing BW under the bus from the very beginning. Long before White folks stepped foot into sub-Saharan Africa. 

Even some Pan-African/Black Nationalist BM have started realizing this and describing the previously admired [Black] Moors as among the original “sell-outs.” Check out the commentary in this video starting at 4:34 into the video.


Money quotes from the video:



Nothing has changed in over 1,300+ years except that—due to the BWE movement’s victory—more AA Black women are willing to see reality regarding Black mens mass, enduring, and permanent disloyalty and betrayal when it comes to Black women.

Another shift created by the BWE movement’s victory is that increasing numbers of AA women are walking away from “Blackistan” and Black men. And, most importantly, these AA women are taking their various resources (emotional, material, monetary, etc.) with them as they walk away.


Sensible AA women are closing their purses shut to BM’s projects. The one-sided loyalty tradition of AA women serving as unreciprocated safety nets and fallback plans for BM is coming to an end, praise God. And as a number of voices have predicted (Breukelen Bleu, myself, and others), the more AA women walk away the more we’ll hear some BM publicly claiming to love, respect and support BW. 

It’s already happening. Here’s an example of one BM who reportedly was viciously denigrating BW just a short time ago, and now claims to have changed his tune, and is saying the following:
Dominique Huff, the ashy bastard who runs the "Dominique Huff Episodes" podcast of Atlanta GA decided to report this post as "Nudity" and had it taken down because he believed I was "Simping". (See evidence in the comments)
(Dominique Huff is a man)
Facebook complied and took my shit down.
They'll probably ban this page, disabling me on both pages.
However I'll do what the fuck I want as always and repost my commentary on Spring Valley High School, and if you wish to reshare it like last time, go for it. Just make sure you take a screenshot for yourself.
You coons are ugly, and should be yourselves for halloween. Go look in the mirror and yell "Happy Halloween" at yourself, Huffboy.
98 people like this.

Geno Richardson commented on an article.
19 hrs
That's a good house slave.
Dude and his parents should be ashamed for cooning his ass off, in support of a racist jackass that employs violence against teenage girls.
If that was a black male he did that to, he would be calling for a Million Men to March their asses to Columbia.

A Spring Valley high school student describes the protest Friday morning in support of Deputy Ben Fields.
WWW.THESTATE.COM

What Mr. Richardson is saying in these two posts about the niglets who protested in support of the WM who brutalized a Black girl student happens to be correct. But even a stopped clock is factually correct twice a day. I was more interested in the reaction comments mentioned during a recent Facebook post

Mardria Andrea Coleman It took Malcolm X over a decade to turn his thoughts and feelings around. No fucking way Geno did the 180 in a damn month.

That nigga went BROKE and downtrodden, bit knew his only form of survival was BLACK WOMEN. If his life was on point hed be leading a tommy sotomayor group as we speak....


And he MIGHT BE. We dont know these RA RA niggas online.

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Karen Baker As I recall Ipersonally only saw his "I USED to bash black women" confessions only AFTER a few black women snatched his panties off in public with screenshots of his anti black women posts. This was around the time he had that "I got robbed" go fund me with that bullshit backstory.
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Mardria Andrea Coleman Right, he got outed THEN owned it and used it as a sob story any damn way!
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Abraham Coleman Hes a very peculiar fellow. Ive seen many of his posts via mutual friends and theres always something odd about his "love the black woman" missives like this. 

In my vast experiences, the extreme "love the sisters" types usually do the most dogging 
and using of the sisters when no one is watching. For lack of a better phrase, he seems falsely TOO pro black woman. 

Based on his own admissions hes been mistreated by women his entire life so what, other than using women, reason does he have to be stuck up the black womans ass all of a sudden?

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Abraham Coleman Forgive me if I'm wrong but I have to call it as it appears. Ive read his "the world hates me" rants and theres always a good 200 black women there to lick his wounds. When was the last time he mentioned how hes benefitted black women in his personal dealings? 

Not to mention, he hated black women before but has he ever come forth with why exactly hes fallen madly in love now? Do women question his motives ever? 

Long ago my grandmother told me aint but two reasons a man gone stay corked up a womans ass: 

Either to put something in her or take something out of her. That seems to be this Geno character.

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Abraham Coleman Black women tend to be allergic to motives. MOTIVES. For all the black woman divine diva goddess talk, theyre about as AWARE as a def squirrel among panthers. 

I see the grungiest men take full advantage of black women just online. How a bastard used to hate you, get your undying loyalty and you've no more than seen a main photo and some typical rants? 


Thats way too fucking easy!

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Mardria Andrea Coleman EXACTLY!!!!!!! The minute I saw the proof of his hatred.... Done. He tried explaining to me, blaming others, pacifying etc.. Naw son. BYE!
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Abraham Coleman Right. You dont spend 20+ years utterly disgusted by someone then magically do a complete shift over night like that when NOTHING in your life has changed other than he noticed how easy it is to get money and allegiance from the black woman. 

He's a great hustler. Thats about it. 


Aint no way a man walking this earth finds zero fault in women. Theyre full of shit too. Period

Ladies, don’t let any of these negroes’ empty talk fool you—keep heading for the exits!


Addendum - A commenter at For Black Women Only called it what it is: BM repeating things they’ve heard said at BWE sites is the new “mack” strategy for predatory so-called Good Black Men™:

Shelisa Howard-Martinez This is the new mack for so-called good black men. A couple of them are really trying to get as much mileage as they can by repeating stuff we've been saying to each other forever. I know of one who frequents this page because he is obsessed with empowered Black women. He blames them for his personal unhappiness but he knows he won't survive 5 minutes if he actually shared his true feelings and thoughts. So he uses multiple fb accounts to suit his purposes. One that is public and where he is the benign "good black man" and another that he uses to harass women.

I caution against inviting-in or holding-up these types. If they were really serious about this, they would be preaching to their male peers and not trying to tell us that the sun is bright and that water is wet.


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Sunday, October 18, 2015

Emotional Technology For Prospering During Troubled Times, Part 1

Obligatory Preamble: Blog posts are NOT a substitute for therapy. If you need therapy, please find a competent counselor and get therapy. A couple of times over the years, I’ve had the unfortunate experience of receiving emails from a few readers who apparently were trying to use BW-centric blogs as a substitute for therapy (and were very resistant and deeply resentful of my suggestion that they get counseling).  No, just NO to anybody trying to use blogs as a substitute for counseling.

This post is only intended for those readers who are already functioning pretty well in life. If you’re not functioning reasonably well, then you should get professional help with that. There’s no shame in getting therapy when you need it. That’s what it’s there for. I’ll add that everybody who needs therapy should take advantage of clinical services while they’re still available. In an age of global economic decline, professional therapeutic services are not going to be around forever.

Furthermore, retreating into religious fanaticism (a favorite tactic for many African-American women) is usually not helpful when it comes to long-term functioning. Religious zeal can carry people over a “hump” and through an immediate crisis, but religious fanaticism tends to entrench a very low level of overall functioning among African-American religious zealots.

I’ll say it the blunt way: AA versions of religious zeal (no matter which monotheistic religion - Islam, Christianity, or Judaism) can be useful for numbing emotional pain, but they lead to most AA believers leading ineffective, LOW-impact, LOW-success lives. I’m just calling it as I see it. It doesn't have to be this way. But it usually is. Because in the absence of a major intervention (such as authentic BWE-type consciousness-raising), AAs take our mass cultural dysfunctions into everything we do.

Every life has its share of “rainy days.” One of the inevitable features of middle-age is dealing with the illness and death of one’s elders. Grief is just one of those things that everybody is forced to deal with (and learn to work through) at some point during their lives. Grief is one thing.

An unhelpful or outright negative pattern of emotional impact is something else. I felt as if the repeated family issues and dynamics associated with multiple older relatives’ infirmity and passing were creating unwelcome emotional echoes in my own life. I would compare the sensation to looking up and suddenly realizing that you had been absentmindedly tapping your foot to the beat of a song playing in the background. A song you dislike that happens to be on heavy rotation on the radio. ‘Nuff said about that.

Anyhoo, I’m always on the lookout for tips, techniques and what I call “emotional technology” that can help self-actualizing AABW. Today’s featured piece of emotional technology is the technique called revision.
 “Dwelling on past irritations or hurts perpetuates them and creates a vicious circle that serves to confirm these negative emotions. The circle can be broken by starting now to revise anything that you no longer wish to sustain in your world. By revising the past, you rid yourself of any effect it may have on your future. Revision is truly the key, which can be used to unlock the doors that have kept you trapped in a particular state. Be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind.” – Neville Goddard
I’ll note for the record that I strongly dislike most of the New Age material that I encounter. For a variety of reasons. Furthermore, I typically HATE anything that calls itself “occult.” {shudder} Yes, I’m one of those religious believer Black folks that has an aversion to that type of stuff.

Be that as it may, I can take what’s useful from an information source (a mental technique for taking the sting out of negative memories and experiences) and leave the rest of it all the way ALONE. So, keeping this in mind, here are links to a couple of articles and a related podcast about revision:




About Mr Twenty Twenty (the guest featured on the podcast listed above)—I’ll note that this is a WM who has been through and survived some heavy duty mess—being held hostage during a prison riot when he was a correctional officer. 

One of the many things I tend to dislike about the middle-class White folks preaching New Age stuff is that you can tell they’ve never had any serious problems. So they’ve never had to put their professed beliefs to the test of helping them prevail over a REAL crisis. Airy-fairy stuff is insufficient for thriving despite the future that's coming down the pike. I'm only interested in techniques that have helped people THRIVE (not just survive) and prevail over extremely challenging circumstances.


Ladies, Get Ready to Thrive!

Thursday, October 8, 2015

This Is Why I Cite Examples Of How Middle-Class White Women & Asian Women Women Handle Courtship & Marriage

I know that a LOT of you are emotionally triggered and enraged whenever I cite White women and Asian women as good examples of what to do IF you want to enjoy a good life as a married woman.

The very mention of Becky and Mei Ling [in the context of her marriages to Western White men] as good examples sends some of you into an absolute frenzy.

I saw many of the emotionally triggered and downright enraged comments that some of you made to the post White Women's "Wedding Season Of Life" Is From Ages 24-28 - If You Want A Good Married Life, You'll Get On This Schedule.

There's a reason why I don't use married Black women (whether African-American or foreign) as good examples of what to do for good results: 

Because the majority of married, middle-class African-American women (and some foreign BW who are married to BM from their home cultures) have toxic, emotionally burdensome marriages that do very little or nothing to elevate their quality of life. 

Of the married, middle-class African-American BW that I know well enough to have a good idea of some of the realities of their marriages with African-American men, I'd say that 95% of them are living like single mothers who just happen to be "officially" married. These women are carrying ALL the burdens of propping up what passes for marriage and family life in their lives. 

Let me mention one "small" concrete example of what I'm talking about. A friend is married to a medical professional who has his own practice. She works full time as an attorney for a firm. Even though he's able to set and control his own hours every day, she always has to be the one to use up her sick days, vacation days, etc. on taking their children to doctor's appointments, teacher's conferences, report card pick-up day, etc. He never inconveniences himself to deal with anything related to their children or family life. Their children aren't small anymore. This overall pattern has been going on for many years.

This is why so many married, middle-class AABW (like the woman I know mentioned above) use such emotionally "heavy" terminology when speaking of marriage. Because for most married AABW (who are married to AABM), marriage is a drain and a B-U-R-D-E-N. 

Even when their AABM husbands are affluent professionals, these AABW are expected to work full-time jobs and then come home and assume ALL the responsibility for child-rearing, cooking and cleaning. By contrast, the majority of the WM attorneys, judges and other professional WM I've known over the years hire maids for their [Becky and Mei Ling] wives. 

The typical middle-class Becky's and Mei Ling's experience of married life [that is, when Mei Ling is married to a Western WM] is a universe away from the "typical" middle-class AABW's experience of married life with African-American BM. Which is why the typical middle-class married Becky and Mei Ling have a "lightness" and carefree air about them. 

Meanwhile, the typical middle-class married AABW who is married to a BM looks exhausted, or drained, or burdened. There's a heaviness to their lives that you can often see written all over their faces and how they walk. For many AABW wives, their marriages are not good marriages. All they have are "bragging rights" to be able to say that they're married. The end.

Which leads me to another observation I've made over the years of listening to older AABW's conversations: As quiet as it's kept, the lack of fulfillment in their marriages is one of the main unspoken reasons why so many older AABW never remarry after a divorce or their husband passes away. 

Love and marriage are supposed to make a woman look good and radiate a vibe of contentment. Oh, like the photos you see of Eve with her British millionaire White husband [and with her four stepchildren from his previous marriage].

What's worst of all is that most AABW have normalized this mass dysfunction. So when you ask the typical married AABW for feedback, they start preaching from The Mammy Manual and The Handmaiden's Handbook. More than a few AABW have taken these mass cultural dysfunctions into their relationships with nonblack men. Which is why we're seeing an increase in the number of "swirl" baby mamas.

Elijah Muhammad taught his followers to study the successful man. Meaning the White man. I often use Mei Ling who dates and marries Western WM as a good example of WINNING because Mei Ling knows better than to do things like THIS (I'll note that one of these fools has a Nigerian-sounding name—foreign-origin BW are not immune to their particular versions of Mammyism):



Vonnie has hosted an excellent Facebook discussion about this BW Getting It Twisted To Cater To Trifling BM Go Dutch app. [I'm still shaking my head about this madness.]

Or THIS mess:

This is the kind of self-defeating craziness that you'll hear from far too many AABW. Nobody else supports or promotes these bizarre, STAY LOSING ideas and practices except AABW. 

Other categories of women in the United States are WINNING. Study them. Read and follow The Rules. Go through the archives and learn from the examples cited in the Platinum Girl Celebrity Blog.

Sunday, September 20, 2015

White Women's "Wedding Season Of Life" Is From Ages 24-28 - If You Want A Good Married Life, You'll Get On This Schedule

In between working on my latest novel, I’ve glanced at a couple of articles that tie into something that a friend and I have been discussing lately. Here are the articles: 



White Women’s “Wedding Season of Life” Runs From Around Age 24-28 

Leaving aside the details of these two celebrities’ personal lives, their fertility problems point out a bigger problem that has gone unnoticed among most African-American Black women (AABW). Here’s what most AABW don’t fully comprehend because we tend to have such segregated social lives: 

Middle-class, professional, reasonably attractive White women’s “wedding season of life” is from age 24-28 years old. More or less. This is the normal—and really, optimal—age range for this particular life experience in a modern, industrialized society like the U.S. For middle class White American women, this is a season of life in which they’re almost constantly serving as bridesmaids in their female friends’ and relatives’ weddings. 

What I’ve noticed is that the few AABW who do get married to AA Black males are for the most part getting married approximately a decade later than their WW peers. AABW who marry AA Black males are getting married a decade later because of African-American Black males’ anti-family values and refusal to offer marriage to Black women, including the women they impregnate and shack up with. 

Let’s remember, it’s the man who proposes and offers marriage to the woman. It’s not like there’s ever been a bunch of AABW refusing marriage proposals. NO, what’s been happening for decades is that AA negro males have been withholding the opportunity for marriage. So, please let’s not play dumb and pretend that the lack of marriage among AAs is due to AABW refusing Black males’ proposals. 

Doing Things “Out of Season” Creates Unnecessary Hardships in Life 

Doing things “out of season” creates unnecessary difficulties in life. Contrary to new school Fantasy Island ideology, there really are seasons in life. It’s best and easiest to do things during their proper season. It’s often possible to do things late, but doing things late typically increases the difficulty involved ten-fold: 

Balancing work and getting a G.E.D. is much harder than simply staying in high school and graduating at the normal age and stage of life. 

Balancing work, parenting responsibilities and college is much harder than getting your undergrad degree before [getting married and] having children. 

Similar negative dynamics apply to women who get married a decade after the optimal professional American woman age range of 24-28. Delaying marriage until one’s 30s increases the odds of fertility problems. This delay also means that both parties are coming to the marriage with a different “head space”—they’re coming to the marriage more set in their own ways after having spent an extra decade living as a single adult who didn’t have to factor anybody else into their decisions. This is not particularly conducive to the cooperation needed for successful married life. 

These older marriage ages among AABW (and the quality of life penalties created by these older marriage ages) are caused by AA negro males’ anti-family values and resistance to marriage. 

Here’s another “quality of life penalty” that a lot of AABW who restrict themselves to dating AA negro males don’t want to face: 

Older parenthood (on both the mother’s and father’s part) significantly increases the risks of birth defects, mental illness, autism spectrum disorders, etc. See the article How Older Parenthood Will Upend American Society: The scary consequences of the grayest generation

I won’t even get into the extreme emotional stress that fertility problems and fertility treatments put on a couple’s marriage. Even when biologically successful, older parenting increases the risk of dying before your children are ready to face the world: 
What haunts me about my children, though, is not the embarrassment they feel when their friends study my wrinkles or my husband’s salt-and-pepper temples. It’s the actuarial risk I run of dying before they’re ready to face the world. At an American Society for Reproductive Medicine meeting last year, two psychologists and a gynecologist antagonized a room full of fertility experts by making the unpopular but fairly obvious point that older parents die earlier in their children’s lives. (“We got a lot of blowback in terms of reproductive rights and all that,” the gynecologist told me.) A mother who is 35 when her child is born is more likely than not to have died by the time that child is 46. The one who is 45 may have bowed out of her child’s life when he’s 37. The odds are slightly worse for fathers: The 35-year-old new father can hope to live to see his child turn 42. The 45-year-old one has until the child is 33.
These numbers may sound humdrum, but even under the best scenarios, the death of a parent who had children late, not to mention the long period of decline that precedes it, will befall those daughters and sons when they still need their parents’ help—because, let’s face it, even grown-up children rely on their parents more than they used to. They need them for guidance at the start of their careers, and they could probably also use some extra cash for the rent or the cable bill, if their parents can swing it. “If you don’t have children till your forties, they won’t be launched until you’re in your sixties,” Suzanne Bianchi, a sociologist who studies families, pointed out to me. In today’s bad economy, young people need education, then, if they can afford it, more education, and even internships. They may not go off the parental payroll until their mid- to late-twenties. Children also need their parents not to need them just when they’ve had children of their own.
Any way you slice it, this is not a pretty picture. What’s truly bizarre is how AABW have normalized this epidemic of fewer and much later marriages (and the problems created by such). AABW normalize this mess in order to cater to the Damaged Beyond Repair masses of AABM who are anti-marriage and therefore are anti-stable family. As was discussed in the post Catering To Damaged Black Men By Deliberately “Getting It Twisted”
During the course of several recent conversations about the No Wedding, No Womb campaign, I’ve heard some Black women make incredibly nonsensical and convoluted arguments in support African-American women continuing to have the majority of their children out of wedlock (oow). They are opposed to any suggestion that more (heterosexual) African-American women should get their childbearing choices back in sync with time-tested human norms. Specifically, the time-tested human norm of “no wedding, no womb.” They take this position despite the unmitigated catastrophe oow has caused for the African-American collective. Basically, according to them, marriage is for every other type of human woman except Black/African-American women. . . . [ ]
Frankly, I don’t believe that many Black women are that stupid. Instead, I believe that many of them adopt these arguments because doing otherwise would mean the end of “nuthin’ but a brother” business as usual. Adhering to normal, human standards for mate selection and procreation would mean acknowledging that the vast majority of African-American males are unfit and unwilling to function as men by serving as competent protectors and providers.
Once an African-American woman acknowledges this fact, the next logical step is for her to expand her dating and marriage options to include non-Black men the global village. Doing that would require a woman to leave the (false) comfort zone of dealing with the dysfunctional collective of Black men.
Furthermore, most AAs refuse to tell the truth about the normal age range of non-AA women during their first marriages in this society. Instead, far too many AA slaves (of both genders) propose having a baby out of wedlock during ones 20s as the solution to the AA marriage-related fertility problems created by AA negro males’ aversion to marriage and their stalling to delay marriage. That's downright crazy.

Yet More Reasons To Expand Your Dating & Marriage Pool If You Want A Healthy Marriage

In summary, if you as an AABW want to maximize your odds of a happy, fulfilling married life you need to get your life choices back in synch with middle-class White America’s seasons of life experiences. As much as possible.

The reality is that the majority of [mostly fatherless, born as bastard babies themselves] AABM aren’t willing to align their baby-making with the human norms regarding marriage. 

Which means that if you’re serious about marriage and family, you need to remove the masses of fatherless and anti-family AABM from your dating pool and date and marry out. 

Saturday, September 5, 2015

Random Public Singing, Celebrating Unnecessary Struggle, & Other Mentally Ill Behaviors


Random Singing in Public = Something That Only Skid Row Winos Would Do Back In The Day 

I’ve seen some comments during recent online conversations at various BW-centric spaces that show just how widespread mental illness has become among modern day African-Americans, in particular African-American Black women (AABW). So many new school AAs are doing so many weird and bizarre public behaviors that previously you used to see only among skid row winos and bums. 

One example is the increasing phenomenon of AA women randomly singing in public. I don’t mean AABW quietly humming along to a song they remember. I’m talking about full-out, loud singing in public as they walk down the street, shop in stores, etc. Loud enough for passersby to hear you.
I hate to break it to those who don't already know this, but it’s PECULIAR and obnoxious behavior. The rest of us don’t want to hear you singing. 

Why can’t some of you see how very, VERY strange that behavior is? 

NOBODY is engaging in this random public singing behavior (with any frequency) except mentally ill AA Black women and mentally ill homeless [mostly male] bums, winos and dope fiends. 

And then more than a few of you have the nerve to be offended when the other people you’re inflicting your unwanted public singing on back away from you and/or look at you funny. You also have the gall to wonder why you’re increasingly unwelcome in various public places. 

It was disturbing to read a recent exchange by a couple of BW commenters (I’ve deleted the names):

Lol

Well well I sing sometimes in public when I get really stessed and my anxiety starts to spike to keep me from wilding out or crying, it's my own coping mechanism. But I don't get loud I didn't realize it was that immoral to sing in public
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 You missing the point [deleted]. No one said its immoral, but who really wants or needs to hear you sing in public? People have their own shit going on and dont need your singing interrupting their thoughts if you are singing loud enough to do so.

And you may not think you are loud, but you never know.

If you’re so stressed out and anxious that you need to sing in public, PLEASE GET SOME THERAPY! 

Of course, the Randomly Singing In Public Commenter ultimately got belligerent and defiant when other commenters (like the second comment quoted above) suggested that this behavior was inappropriate and a nuisance to others around her. Well, she’ll probably have to learn her lesson the hard way that sometimes it’s better to yield—like Sandra Bland learned the hard way. Oh, well . . . in this modern era, hard heads make dead bodies. 

Furthermore, if your first reaction—as a purportedly responsible adult—to the news story about the BW who recently were ejected from a wine train is to ask “How loud is too loud?” then you’re probably an uncouth, ghetto individual—the type of individual that sane, civilized people (of all races and ethnicities) don’t want around. Or at their events. Or in their neighborhood. Or on their job. 

I stopped having knee-jerk reactions in support of self-proclaimed aggrieved AAs because too many AAs really ARE doing various inappropriate things in public. Oh, like the Black actress who decided to have sexual relations with her boyfriend in public view and then cried racism. Ive learned to take a breath and wait for the other shoe to drop before taking a position regarding various controversies  about random, Unknown To Me Black folks public behavior. 

Anyhoo, if youre the kind of person whose first reaction is to ask “How loud is too loud?” then get used to being shut out of things because the rest of us are sick of savages who cheapen and destroy everything nice they come into contact with. 

Empathizing With A [Obviously] Deranged BM Killer Who Murdered 2 Coworkers On Camera & Shot A Totally Uninvolved Woman Being Interviewed 

Another deranged thing that I’ve recently seen are the AA discussions surrounding the deranged gay BM named Vester Flanagan who murdered two of his former coworkers on camera. As I said during part of an email conversation with a friend about this: 
“I'm listening to the local Black-owned talk radio station and they're actually SYMPATHIZING with this killer negro!!!! 

The BM (ex-con former alderman) show host, 

BM caller after BM caller, 

a BM gossip radio show performer talking about his EEOC gripes about a previous TV employer who now works for this Black station:

are ALL talking about discrimination on the job, how the EEOC doesn't really help people facing discrimination, etc. whining about how "White people need to understand X, Y, Z"......

Not a word about the murder victims and their families. 

Not a word about the uninvolved woman who was being interviewed who was also shot by this killer negro. 

Right now there's a negro calling in who's scolding the BM host for referring to the killer as a killer. Because "all the facts aren't in" and "We don't know if the [murdered WW] TV reporter was on marijuana the way 'they' said Trayvon Martin had marijuana in his system.." {gasp}” 
In addition to this, I heard (during that show) and saw (during online conversations at AA-oriented sites) commenter after commenter begin their killer-sympathizing comments with the phrase “White people need to understand [X,Y, and Z about racism] . . .” 

White America Doesn’t Need To Understand Anything About African-Americans Since We Collectively Depend On White America For EVERYTHING 

THIS “White people need to understand [X,Y, and Z about racism] . . .” mentality is crazy. African-Americans depend on White America to supply us with everything we need: food, clothing, shelter, employment, transportation, etc. By contrast, White America does not depend on African-Americans for anything. We collectively need them; they don’t need us. 

And this is the way it will continue to be since AAs: 

Refuse to produce anything of our own; 

Refuse to cooperate with each other; and 

Refuse to support each other economically. Since the walls of segregation have gone down, African-Americans have enforced an unspoken 50 Years & Counting undeclared boycott against visibly Black-owned businesses

Celebrating Unnecessary Struggle While “Hating On” Excellence & Common Sense 

Just read through many of the comments to THIS Facebook post by Bougie Black Girl. A mindset of celebrating unnecessary struggle while simultaneously “hating on” and resenting common sense and excellence is a first class ticket to the African-American Permanent Underclass. 

It’s one thing to be born into a bad situation created by one’s biological parents (since most Black underclass problems have their origin in out of wedlock childbearing and single parenting). It’s one thing to do the right things, exercise common sense and have one’s plans derailed by circumstances that are truthfully out of one’s control. 

It’s something totally dysfunctional to celebrate people recovering from their SELF-created problems. While many of y’all quietly (and sometimes not so quietly) hate and resent Black folks who use common sense and do the right things. That’s sick. 

Anyhoo, I had no idea there is so much widespread untreated mental illness among modern day African-Americans. If you have these type of people in your personal social circles, I respectfully suggest that you purge them. These kind of people are liabilities. Liabilities that you can’t afford if you’re seeking abundant lifestyles. You might want to take a look at these previous posts: